Have you been invited out to dinner and you’re wondering if you can safely eat out in a restaurant? You’re not alone.
Gluten-free dining can be a nerve-wracking experience, but with these 7 essential tips, you can confidently savor restaurant meals.
In life, risk is inevitable. It's knowing what to watch for that can help you to put the risk in perspective and decide when the risk is worth the reward.
The risks of gluten free dining in a restaurant are:
You can't completely eliminate all risk. No restaurant, unless it’s a dedicated gluten-free restaurant, can guarantee safety. That would be impossible. These tips will help minimize the risks.
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Some people with celiac simply never travel or eat outside their own home. It makes me sad to think of the fun and great food they are missing.
If you’re like me, then you've decided that celiac disease will limit your life as little as possible. I look at it this way:
We accept these risks because we decide they are worth it.
But if you will be so worried that you can't enjoy yourself or if the anxiety will make you sick, then maybe staying home or bringing your own food is right for you. It's 100% your decision.
One of the hardest things about gluten free dining is understanding the menu. What does it mean when you see terms like:
Why will they not come out and say that something is gluten-free?
It comes back to the "no guarantees" thing I mentioned before. Due to legal considerations1, most restaurants avoid the term 'gluten-free.'
For some people with low risk tolerance or very high sensitivity, this is a non starter. But I wouldn't dismiss these places yet. Many provide safe gluten free menu choices and have good allergy protocols. You just need to know what questions to ask.
Some restaurants offer a safer gluten free dining experience than others. A little research before you go improves your chance of finding safe gluten free restaurant options and getting a safe meal.
Whether you're on the phone or in the restaurant about to place your order, here's what you need to ask:
There are several apps and websites that can help you to find a delicious and safe gluten free restaurant meal.
Most are crowd sourced and include comments from previous gluten-free guests. They rate for safety, the quality of the food and the overall experience. These are especially helpful if you are travelling and not familiar with the city.
Here are a few examples:
I write reviews of the restaurants I visit and I invite you to share your gluten-free dining experiences here.
You know what it’s like when things get really busy. Even if you are a detail oriented, no corner cutting person, it’s more difficult to keep track of everything and mistakes are more likely.
This is also true in a commercial kitchen. Their processes are tight and well timed. That’s how they get the food out to their customers while it’s hot and delicious. A “special order” means the whole thing has to slow down. They need to change gloves, get a fresh pan, use fresh toppings.
There is less chance that something will get missed if you avoid the dinner time rush. Then the kitchen crew is not so stressed, and they can take the time to make your meal with the care both you and they know it deserves.
If you want to know the busiest time for a restaurant check out their listing on Google. You don’t need to go completely off of meal time, just try to avoid the rush.
Even if there is a gluten-free menu or items marked gluten-free you still need to inform your server that you have celiac or a gluten-intolerance and ask them to inform the kitchen.
Talk with your server about the menu choices, the ingredients and what substitutions can be made.
Ask the allergy questions I outlined earlier
Be patient if he or she doesn't know for sure and needs to check.
Printable Dining Card: Download this printable dining card and take it to the restaurant with you. It will help to explain your gluten-free dining needs and ensure there are no misunderstandings.
Avoiding gluten and gluten cross-contamination at restaurants is a challenge. Here are some menu items that may be risky. Watch for these and be especially careful.
Always tip generously when you're well looked after!
I know gluten free food is more expensive to begin with. But keep in mind that having to take special precautions with your food means extra work. That efficient, well oiled machine of a restaurant kitchen has to slow down, change the routine and pay special attention. They may have to alter a recipe, take time to clean a work surface and change gloves. This is worth something and for me, I am truly grateful for the special attention I often receive when when dining out.
Express your gratitude and leave a generous tip.
And always be polite. My grandmother used to say “ you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar”.
I've read tons of forum posts from people reporting poor or dismissive treatment in restaurants. I can honestly say that I can count the number of times this has happened to me on one hand, with fingers left over.
I wonder if some of those folks reporting poor treatment have gone in with an attitude of entitlement? If we start by understanding that we are asking for special treatment that is difficult to provide and a lot to expect; if we’re polite with servers, understanding and willing to explain, I think we’ll find that most will be willing to work with us.
I haven't included this as a tip, but it might be the most important.
Remember what it's all about.
You're going out to enjoy time with friends and family. Even if the menu selection isn't great for you, you're with your people. Enjoy them, make the food secondary.
Notes:
1. There are legal requirements for use of the gluten free. Here are the published guidelines from the US FDA and Health Canada.